Preparing for Communal Ceremony

Ceremony in Our Home

You will be stepping into a communal experience with the two of us, and up to three other guests.

On the day of:

  • Allow for at least 2.5-3 hours of digesting your last food before arriving.

  • Hydrate well prior to arrival.

  • Wear comfortable clothing.

  • If you’d like to bring an instrument, poetry, a painting, or other expression of you, please do so!

  • Items for the altar are welcome.

Transportation:

  • Most guests will be ready to drive following the close of ceremony.

  • You will have the space to stay here in our home if you need more time before driving out.

  • We also recommend considering having someone drop you off and pick you up.

  • Another option is to take a lyft/uber to/from ceremony.

Day Ceremony in Nature

You will be stepping into a communal experience with the two of us, and up to three other guests.

On the day of:

  • Please respect the arrival time of 10am to our North Boulder home (we will depart no later than 10:15am).

  • Eat breakfast as you normally would.

  • Dress in hiking attire (hiking footwear, layers).

  • Additionally, consider bringing:

    • raincoat.

    • sun hat.

  • We highly recommend bringing a backpack with the following:

    • 2 liters water (we will not provide water).

    • blanket to sit on (we’ll be on pine needles & earth).

    • sunscreen.

    • toilet paper/tissues.

    • snacks (such as bars, nuts, fruit) you might want for the hike/drive after.

Transport & Trek:

  • You are responsible for your arrival and departure from our home.

  • From our home, we will caravan to the trailhead in our all-wheel-drive vehicles.

  • From trailhead to ceremony spot, it’s a 25-45 minute hike, some uphills/downhills — good footwear is essential.

  • Expect to start back home from our place by 6:30pm.

Overnight Ceremony in Nature

You will be stepping into a communal experience with the two of us, and up to three other guests.

On the day of:

  • Please respect the arrival time of 10am to our North Boulder home (we will depart no later than 10:15am).

  • Eat breakfast as you normally would.

Additionally, consider bringing:

Note that summers in the Rockies can vary from hot sun to passing storms dropping cold rain and wind - hence the layers.

We will provide a camp stove, tea kettle, and stew pot for your use.

  • Backpack (40-50 liter capacity) for packing in gear + backpack rain cover.

  • Tent or sleeping hammock (3 season). If tent: ground tarp, rain fly, tent stakes, etc. If hammock: rain fly, bug netting, underquilt, etc.

  • Sleeping bag (3 season).

  • High elevation clothing.

  • Hiking shoes/boots or trail shoes (ideally waterproof or water resistant).

  • Rain coat or waterproof jacket.

  • Layers (some lighter for the heat of day, some heavier for the cold of evening/night + passings storms; more is better than less; thermals, hoodies, etc).

  • Extras in case of wetness: socks, more layers.

  • Headlamp with batteries fully charged.

  • Water bottles (at least 2 liters).

  • Insect repellent* (layers are also helpful here; mosquitos love summers in the Rockies!).

  • Sunscreen.

  • Sunglasses.

  • Toiletries.

  • Toothbrush/toothpaste.

  • Toilet paper.

  • Snacks/dinner/breakfast (food will not be provided by us).

Transport & Trek:

  • You are responsible for your arrival and departure from our home.

  • From our home, we will caravan to the trailhead in our all-wheel-drive vehicles.

  • From trailhead to ceremony spot, it’s typically a 25-45 minute hike, some uphills/downhills — good footwear is essential.

  • Expect to return home from our place by 11am the following day.

Contemplations prior to ceremony:

  • What are you bringing into ceremony — emotionally, physically, energetically?

  • What in you is ready for a change?

  • What do you hope to offer the group, not just receive from it?

  • What would it mean to be truly seen in this container?

  • What is your intention?